On Pop Culture, Career Goals, and SEL
“I’ve heard educators say this is a very unique and interesting time to educate young people because of who and what they want to be, and the realistic lifestyle track to get to those places. If I’m taking you through the history of SEL, and really why social and emotional learning is even important, there are three major provocations that I think have brought us to the place where we are right now: it’s the influence of music, the influence of movies, and the influence of culture that have really created a strong gap in the reasons we need SEL in our lives.
I call it the “desensitization of humanity.” there’s no judgement here, there’s no angst here, there’s no anger — I love looking at the facts. Facts don’t care about what we feel, they just tell us an interesting story and we get to decide if we want to see if we can change those facts.”
On Student Struggles and SEL Strategy
According to Budzinski, the Top 10 Student Struggles are:
- Bullying and cyberbullying
- Suicide and self-inflicted hurt
- Substance use and alcohol abuse
- Social media and device distraction
- Family issues and relationships
- Teen pregnancy and sexual pressure
- Depression and anxiety
- Fear of the future
- Low self-esteem and inferiority complex
- Peer pressure and acceptance
“How and why and what do students struggle with? As we’ve traveled, we’ve heard educators at the district level, educators at the school building leadership level, social workers, counselors, mental health professionals, teachers of all types of different categories—you could talk math, English, science, it doesn’t matter— they have said, “Wow, I’ve seen an increase in this more than ever before.” There are always positive stories, but what’s happening is our students are hurting, and they’re hurting because of these other things.
These are the top 10 struggles happening in our students lives right now, because of where we’re at in this world and where we’re at in society. We have an incredible opportunity to create a significant seismic shift and change in our schools, because as things get worse, I truly believe things can only get better and better and better exponentially. And I’ll tell you why: because people want to do what’s right.
I deeply have a conviction—and I’ve seen it across every country I’ve worked in, and every school, and the millions of people that I’ve spoken to—people want to do what’s right. While our students are struggling with this, here’s an interesting thing: what are we struggling with? What are you struggling with as an educator? I think it’s an interesting perspective to think, “Wow, maybe I do have low self-esteem and I’ve never really noticed my inferiority complex, which is why I sometimes inadvertently ignore certain staff members in my school, or trigger certain ways when people ask me to do certain things. Maybe I do have a fear of the future—with Covid happening, I don’t know if my job is going to be there. That freaks me out. I don’t know if I want to live behind a screen forever, I want to get in front of these kids’ faces and help them out.” There are all these things where we’re very similar in some ways to students, but the pressures are different.”